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I’m a Trust Fund Lady (Ep. 91)

I’m a Trust Fund Lady (Ep. 91)

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On this episode of the Money Is Emotional podcast, host Christine Luken challenges common stereotypes about trust fund and “nepo” babies while exploring the realities of inheritance, family businesses and generational wealth. Christine argues that criticizing people who inherit wealth while hoping to create wealth for your own family sends conflicting messages about your financial goals.

Christine discusses:

  • Why you need to rethink negative assumptions about inherited wealth?
  • Being a “nepo baby” isn’t as easy as it looks.
  • Family businesses require preparation, not entitlement.
  • Why trust fund babies are relatively uncommon?
  • Money and inheritance are deeply emotional.

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The Future of Female Friendships (Ep. 90)

The Future of Female Friendships (Ep. 90)

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In this deeply personal episode of the Money Is Emotional Podcast, host Christine Luken welcomes her friend Nicole Olsthoorn for an honest conversation about a misunderstanding that could have ended their friendship but instead made it stronger. Rather than avoiding conflict, both women chose curiosity, accountability, and open communication, demonstrating what emotionally mature friendships can look like.

Christine and Nicole discuss:

  • How to settle misunderstandings with grace and emotional maturity.
  • Taking responsibility for your own emotions rather than making others responsible for them.
  • Why healthy female friendships are not defined by the absence of conflict?
  • Recognizing that emotional triggers often point to unresolved experiences from the past.
  • Repairing relationships through honest, respectful conversations instead of gossip, avoidance or resentment.

 

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About my guest:

Nicole Olsthoorn (aka The Celtic Goddess) is a high priestess, a seer and channel, and an expert in creating sacred spaces. She uses her spiritual gifts to guide ambitious soul-led female founders and leading ladies in the reclamation of their feminine intuition, power, and leadership through online and in-person rites, rituals, and ceremonies that elevate and transform instantly. Nicole believes that women are the catalyst for the evolution of humanity, and that the world isn’t collapsing — she is emerging.

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Divorce By Design (Ep. 89)

Divorce By Design (Ep. 89)

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On this episode of the Money is Emotional podcast, host Christine Luken sits down with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and Author, Melissa Murphy Pavone, author of Divorce by Design, to discuss how people can navigate divorce with greater clarity, intention, and financial confidence.

Melissa shares how her mother’s difficult divorce inspired her career in divorce financial planning after witnessing the long-term consequences of emotional financial decisions. She explains that divorce is not just a legal process but one of the largest financial transactions most people will ever experience, making it essential to have both emotional and financial support throughout the journey.

Christine and Melissa discuss:

  • What drew Melissa to specialize in divorce financial planning?
  • The difference between “Divorce by Default” and “Divorce by Design”
  • The biggest financial mistakes people make during the divorce process.
  • How working with a team like financial professional, attorneys and mediators can lead to better outcomes.
  • Helping clients shift from survival mode into actually planning and feeling hopeful about their financial future.

 

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About my guest

Melissa Murphy Pavone is a highly respected financial expert specializing in collaborative divorce.

As both a Certified Financial Planner (CFP®) and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®), Melissa offers a unique blend of expertise that empowers individuals to make informed financial decisions during one of life’s most challenging transitions.

Her passion for collaborative divorce stems from her commitment to helping couples navigate divorce in a constructive, non-adversarial way. Melissa works closely with family law attorneys, mediators, and mental health professionals to provide a holistic approach to divorce that focuses on fairness and long-term financial security for all parties involved.

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Money Tips from Old Married Couples (Ep. 81)

Money Tips from Old Married Couples (Ep. 81)

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This episode is all about real talk and practical wisdom. Christine Luken gathers stories and tips from “old married couples” who’ve weathered economic ups and downs together so you don’t have to figure everything out the hard way. Learn how honest conversations, clear systems, and value-driven decisions can bring your financial life into alignment, whether you’re running a busy practice or managing your household finances.

Christine discusses:

  • The importance of transparent money conversations (hint: silence is not golden).
  • How financial systems can reduce friction and free up your mental energy.
  • Why financial intimacy requires emotional vulnerability.
  • Balancing your “provider” and “pleasure” money without the guilt.
  • Why there’s no one-size-fits-all for couples’ finances and how to find out what works for you.

Whether you and your partner tackle bill pay together or separately, this episode is packed with actionable ideas you can start using right away to bolster both your bank accounts and your relationship.

 

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Do This Before You Set 2026 Goals (Ep. 77)

Do This Before You Set 2026 Goals (Ep. 77)

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Ready to set ambitious goals for 2026? 🚀 Before you dive in, discover why celebrating your wins and learning from your challenges can transform your business and financial outcomes. In this episode, Christine Luken shares her proven year-end review process that sets the foundation for powerful goal-setting and lasting success.

Christine discusses:

  • Why you don’t need to have your resolutions ready by January 1st.
  • Why women especially tend to skip celebrating accomplishments.
  • How to build momentum instead of starting from zero.
  • The importance of creating celebration and vision boards that keep you motivated all year.
  • How to connect financial goals with real meaning and make them stick.

 

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Will AI Replace Financial Coaches? (Ep. 70)

Will AI Replace Financial Coaches? (Ep. 70)

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On this episode of Money is Emotional podcast, host Christine Luken tackles a timely question:
Will AI Replace Financial Coaches?

The answer might surprise you, yes and no.

Discover why a human touch remains vital in your financial journey, especially during stressful or complex situations. Christine shares personal stories, explores the limitations of AI when it comes to emotional intelligence, and highlights how technology can actually enhance your financial planning by making support more accessible, data-driven, and tailored to your unique needs.

Whether you’re considering adding an AI-driven resource to your advisory team or wondering what a human coach can do that an app can’t, this episode breaks down the balance.

Learn how you can combine the best of both worlds to achieve financial clarity and peace of mind.

Christine discusses:

  • Human wisdom is an irreplaceable asset.
  • AI is a powerful support tool not a substitute.
  • Why AI cannot provide genuine emotional support?.
  • How AI makes financial coaching more scalable and accessible.
  • Emma, a custom financial coaching AI that mimics her voice, wisdom and approach.


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Overcoming Money Shame (Ep. 61)

Overcoming Money Shame (Ep. 61)

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On this episode of The Money is Emotional Podcast, host Christine Luken, the acclaimed financial dignity coach, dives deep into the often uncomfortable topic of “Overcoming Money Shame.” Using insights from Brene Brown’s “Atlas of the Heart,” Christine unpacks heavy emotions like shame, guilt, and perfectionism—showing how they manifest specifically in our financial lives. She inspires us to embrace self-compassion and empathy, positioning these as the keys to break free from the shackles of money shame.

Christine discusses:

  • The difference between guilt and shame in the context of managing personal finances.
  • How to break out of money shame cycle.
  • Her personal journey of overcoming money shame.
  • How perfectionism can sabotage your future growth.
  • What she learnt from the challenges she faced in the BODi LAVA fitness program.
  • The importance of self-compassion in overcoming money shape and achieving financial dignity.

 

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The Good Money Revolution with Derrick Kinney (Ep. 56)

The Good Money Revolution with Derrick Kinney (Ep. 56)

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What does it feel like to give back and still thrive financially?

In this episode, Financial Dignity® Coach Christine Luken chats with Derrick Kinney, author of the bestseller “Good Money Revolution.” Derrick’s journey from running a top financial advisory firm to spearheading a movement where money meets meaning is both inspiring and revolutionary. Discover why he believes that money isn’t bad and how good people can leverage it to make a great impact. Derrick shares insights about connecting cash with causes, diversifying your giving strategy, and his infectious philosophy that more money equals more good.

Christine and Derrick dive into: 

  • (02:02) Why Derrick sold his successful business at its peak to pursue a passion-driven career
  • (09:35) The concept of the “Good Money Revolution” and its impact on financial success
  • (14:28) How connecting cash to a cause increases happiness and purpose
  • (16:57) Practical ways to start giving, even when funds feel tight
  • (35:24) Investing in relationships for long-term growth and fulfillment
  • (38:45) How setbacks have paved the way for Derrick’s triumphs
  • And more!

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About Our Guest: 

Derrick Kinney is dedicated to helping anyone who feels left behind build the wealth and life they deserve. Coming from a lower to middle-class family, Derrick didn’t start with much and had to carve his own path. Despite the odds being stacked against him, Derrick set clear goals, worked hard, and reached millionaire status at 37. From there, Derrick built one of the top financial planning firms in the country, helping countless individuals achieve their own millionaire dreams with a plan that truly works. Today, Derrick is known as “America’s Financial Educator.” He takes that role seriously because he understands what it’s like to start from scratch. Derrick gets it—the frustrations, worries, and uncertainty about financial futures—and is here to help others overcome those challenges with a proven plan.

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The Wealthy Woman Within (Ep. 41)

The Wealthy Woman Within (Ep. 41)

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Are you ready to discover the keys to becoming a wealthy woman?

In this episode, Financial Dignity® Coach, Christine Luken, shares the surprising keys women can use to unlock their financial power and take control of their money.  Through defining what true wealth means beyond just numbers, sharing personal journeys, exploring the power of emotions, and embracing discomfort, listeners will learn how to achieve financial confidence and empowerment.

Christine discusses: 

  • What “wealthy” means, and why women should aspire to it
  • Her journey to becoming a Wealthy Woman
  • How to use emotions as a superpower in financial decision-making and goal-setting
  • Building money confidence with competency and community
  • Why we need to step out of our comfort zone to achieve financial growth and stability
  • And more

If you’re interested in working with Christine 1:1, apply for Financial Dignity® Coaching here: https://www.christineluken.com/apply/ 

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Money Is Not Evil (Ep. 25)

Money Is Not Evil (Ep. 25)

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Have you ever felt guilty about desiring wealth? Have you been told that money is the root of all evil? 

Dive into this episode as Financial Dignity® Coach, Christine Luken, unravels the intricate ties between money, spirituality, and morality! Dismantling long-standing myths and drawing from the wisdom of thought leaders and spiritual  teachings, this transformative journey offers a balanced view of wealth, fostering a positive and dignified relationship with finances.

Throughout the episode, Christine dives into:

  • Discover the paradigm shift that recognizing money as a tool creates in your wealth perspective
  • Debunking misconceptions around wealth and spirituality
  • How to navigate wealth, embody generosity, and respond to scrutiny with grace and dignity
  • How to ensure that money is your servant, not your master 
  • How to uncover, process, and heal your emotional money triggers to achieve financial dignity and success
  • And more!

 

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